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Tanya Valentin

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You may have seen my post earlier this week where You may have seen my post earlier this week where I announced that change was on the horizon and that I will be taking a new direction in my business and on this page. Today I updated my profile which will give you clues as to what this new direction may be. Some of you may read my new profile description and be curious as to why I have gone this way. I promise that all will be revealed over time. There is one really important message that I want to convey by sharing what is changing for me publically with you. 💛No matter what there is always time to stop and listen to the murmuring of your soul. 💛Your life is yours and you get to decide what fits and what no longer feels right. You are allowed to change your mind. 💛Even though you may feel responsible for everyone's feelings and opinions, or want to help everyone with everything. The person who you are responsible for first is to yourself. I look forward to sharing more with you as a community over the next few weeks. with love and respect Tanya x
Change is hard and yet change is part and parcel w Change is hard and yet change is part and parcel with the contract we make with life as a living creature. Just like our perfect example, nature - we are meant to grow, evolve and change. When we stop doing this we become stagnate, get stuck and suffer. And yet we resist this natural and vital part of life with every part of our being, because somewhere along the line we learn to believe that we have to stay the same. I see this in: 💛Anti-aging messaging (expecting humans to stay young looking forever) 💛Career choice (expecting teenagers to choose a career in high school and then stick with this decision for the rest of their lives) 💛Relationships (expecting humans to stay in relationships that are abusive or that we have simply outgrown) 💛Identity (expecting humans to conform to a certain avatar/sterotype of who they are meant to be and never being able to change) 💛Gender and sexuality (expecting humans to conform to anoften very narrow view of gender and sexual preference) 💛What is considered 'normal' (defining acceptance by conforming to an often unattainable or unrealistic standard) This belief that we shouldn't change causes so much inner turmoil and shame around something that is a necessary and natural thing in life. During the month of September I was led on a deeply personal journey about my own thinking on change and I am not going to lie - it really hurt! We are constantly unlayering and letting go of parts of ourselves that no longer fit and if we do it right it is both painful and beautiful. I am now in a place to start talking publically about changes that will be happening over then next few months on this page and in my business. Some of you may not want to go on this journey with me and that is okay, please know that I love and appreciate you for walking with me thus far. I am excited to be walking with those of you who choose to stay and will find the benefit in my work. with love and respect T x
As a mum of teens with high and diverse needs, an As a mum of teens with high and diverse needs, an educator and business owner I have learned to recognise the signs of when I am in danger of over doing it and burning myself out. I have learned that it is vital to monitor my energy levels and to pull back for not only my benefit but also for benefit of my children. How are you doing? Do you need to pull back a little and fill your own cup? Are you waiting for permission? Well here it is - You are allowed to take a break - You are allowed x
Just as the moon goes through cycles of death and Just as the moon goes through cycles of death and rebirth so do we Our life is a never-ending cycle of this death and rebirth too all for the purpose learning new things about who we are, why we are and what we are here to do Please know that whatever phase you are there is growth and learning for you here x
The doors to my supportive FREE community are now The doors to my supportive FREE community are now open again. If you are a soul-led midlife woman looking for a safe, uplifting community to hold space for you while you learn to reconnect with, love and trust yourself then I would like to invite you to join my FREE community. The link is in my bio
Check in time 💛 One of my biggest values is se Check in time 💛 One of my biggest values is service and I would like to know how to best serve you on this page. I know that as women we tend keep things close to our chests and find it difficult to ask for help... But if I could help you with something about this season of being a woman what would it be?
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