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Midlife Mentor for Soul-Led Women just like YOU.

Welcome to the ‘half-way’ mark my friend. Welcome to this time of mayhem and magic!

When you work with me I will help you to find a clear pathway out of the overwhelm and confusion that you feel stuck in.

Let me show you how to improve the relationship that you have with yourself, so that you as a woman can have more Joy, Purpose, Freedom, Choice and Possibility to have the life YOU truly want.

Rediscover and reconnect with the woman you truly are and learn how to love her. (Not the role or the person other people want you to be)
Heal and move the “mountains” of past mistakes, regrets, others beliefs, expectations from your life.
Navigate this stage of change and uncertainty with confidence.
Break the cycle of ‘selflessness’ that is expected from women in order to be a ‘good mother’ for yourself and your children.
Learn to trust yourself again and feel positive about your decisions.
Design and live a life that reflects who you truly are and is aligned with your values.
Develop stronger, more loving, authentic, supportive relationships.
Be empowered with tools that allow you to be a caring supportive mother while restoring a sense of purpose, wellbeing and balance to your life.
Feel at peace with your past and feel hopeful and excited for your future!
Be the Queen of Your Own Life!

What Does Being The Queen Of Your Own Life Really Mean?

A Queen holds a clear vision for herself aligned to her values and what feels right for her and her life.
A Queen knows that she is already worthy. She does not need anyone to choose her, because she knows that she can choose herself.
A Queen trusts herself and her decisions.
A Queen is a leader. She is not afraid of gathering a team around her and to trust them to help and support her.
A Queen does not discount herself, or allow others to diminish who she is, and instead stands in the light of her own sovereignty.
A Queen values her own energy, and she sets and maintains firm boundaries in order to preserve these for herself.
A Queen knows what she wants out of life, and invests in herself and her mission.
A Queen wears her crown with dignity, confidence, and pride.

About Tanya - Midlife Mentor For Women

Tanya Valentin is an Author and Midlife Mentor for Women. She is the Founder of The Feminine School of Unlearning.

Tanya supports Soul-Led, Midlife Women who are on an awakening journey to unlearn the beliefs, behaviours and stories that no longer serve them.

Tanya will show you how you to reconnect with and love the woman behind the roles, the responsibilities and the weight of the expectations of others so you can feel free to live the next half of your life in a way feels true to who you authentically are as the Queen of your own life!

For over a decade Tanya has worked with women to understand, unlearn, and heal the relationship that they have with themselves.

Tanya is a teacher, mentor, therapist and the author of two books including When She Wakes, She Will Move Mountains. Tanya uses Archetype work, Storytelling, NLP, REBT, EFT, TFT, Havening and her AWAKEN mentoring framework to support women to claim their crown as the Queen of their own lives!

Tanya lives in beautiful New Zealand with her husband, three teenage daughters, her two dogs, three cats and a collection of cute free-range farm animals.

Read Tanya’s Story HERE

How Can I Help You?

Are You A Soul-Led Midlife Woman Who Is Searching For Her Soul Sisters?

Mid-life is a potent time of letting go and rebirth that can be lonely and confusing for many women. But you don’t have to do it alone.

Join my free online community for Soul-Led, Midlife Women who are on a midlife awakening journey.

Together, we are on a mission to support each other through the ups and downs of midlife, share what brings us alive and unlearn beliefs and behaviours that no longer serve us so that we can discover what it means to be the Queen of our own lives.

When She Wakes, She Will Move Mountains

Learn how to move the ‘mountains’ of others expectations from your life and AWAKEN Your Wild Authentic Inner Queen!

Break out of the roles that you have been handed in life, create more opportunities and take back your own power, by speaking up and making decisions for yourself, with your newfound confidence.

“When She Wakes, She Will Move Mountains is a Powerhouse of a book!” April (AMAZON)⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

“I would highly recommend this book.” Evelyn (GOODREADS) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Mentoring With Tanya

Women are handed roles in life and we are led to believe that we have to fit into our culture’s narrow view of who they think that we are, or should be.

This may have worked for you for the first part of your life, but...Your heart knows that your life could be more fun, creative, purposeful and connected to who you are and what is truly important.

You know that it is now or never but you are fearful of change or don’t know where to start.

Book a Clarity Session with Me.

In this FREE Session, I will help you to get clear about what is keeping you stuck and the next steps that you need to take.

Download Your FREE Meditation

As women, we are handed roles, stories, and beliefs from other people about who we are.

This can really limit our choices, possibilities, and our perception of what we think we are capable of.

This FREE Affirmation Meditation is my gift to you, beautiful Queen.

I will support you to reconnect with your Inner Queen and remind you just how powerful you are to create the life that you choose.

Read My Latest Blogs

What Is Shadow Work And How To Do It?

The word’s ‘shadow work’ can sound scary and ominous. However, shadow work is simply a process of bringing gentle awareness to these unloved, unwanted bits of ourselves, healing and lovingly accepting and integrating our shadow as part of us.

Read this blog and learn more about your shadow self, shadow teachers, shadow archetypes and how to do shadow work. Download my FREE shadow work journal prompts PDF.

Is It A Midlife Crisis Or A Spiritual Awakening?

Many people upon hearing the word “Spiritual Awakening” might conjure up images of Buddhist monks, psychics or witchy types. We may think that a spiritual awakening is reserved for a select group of people such as people who are devoutly religious. However, regardless of our religious beliefs, we are all capable of and do experience awakenings at various stages of our lives.

What Is The AWAKEN Mentoring Framework?

My AWAKEN Mentoring Framework contains the steps that I believe are necessary for us as women to be initiated into in order to truly reconnect with who we are at our purest essence. Each letter in the word AWAKEN represents a step or a pillar. I use these pillars to inform my work as a Midlife Mentor. I use the AWAKEN Mentoring Framework to support the women I work with in my online community, The Feminine School of Unlearning.