Tanya Valentin
Specialized support for parents of neurodivergent children and teens in autistic burnout recovery
We all start off our parenting journey with a ‘plan’.
A set of expectations, dreams and aspirations for ourselves, our children and what our parenting journey should look like.
Chances are your ‘plan’ looked nothing like this.
It can feel insurmountable to get your head around what is happening and what needs to be done because you have no idea what the new plan looks like. (I mean is there even a plan?)
Are you doing the right thing?
Our children are so precious to us, the stakes to getting it right are high!
I get it!
I know what it is like to look at your struggling child in burnout and your family in survival mode and blame yourself.
To work up the courage to ask for help only to feel the cold stare of others’ judgement of your parenting. The invalidation, the hundreds of hoops to jump through and the professional gaslighting…
To be dismissed and to be told that your instincts are wrong or that your children’s struggles are all your fault.
I know what it’s like to know that you need help, but have nowhere to turn to receive it.
It can feel impossibly hard to trust others with these most vulnerable parts of you.
What Parents Are Saying:
“Tanya is a safe space and a wealth of knowledge.
From the beginning, her calmness and understanding of burnout helped me identify what I was going through as a parent and how to better support my 16 year old son.
We were new to Autism and Burnout, with a lot of questions. Her story and her coaching helped me through some of my most difficult days.
It can be a lonely road that others just don’t understand—as parents we need someone who truly understands and can give specific guidance depending upon where your family is at in their journey. Tanya came into my life at just the right time.” (S.L. – Parent)
I’ve been where you are and I can help.
I support parents of Autistic and ADHD children in burnout recovery by helping them:
- Understand Burnout – Recognize the signs, set realistic expectations, and support your child’s recovery.
- Create a Low-Demand Environment – Reduce stressors and sensory overload to foster healing.
- Support Emotional & Sensory Needs – Navigate regulation challenges with neuro-affirming, trauma-informed strategies.
- Manage Transitions – Guide your child through recovery stages, school decisions, and capacity-building.
- Prevent Future Burnout – Identify early warning signs and build long-term energy management strategies.
- Find Emotional Support for You – Provide a safe space for processing emotions, healing, and nervous system regulation (EFT & havening).
- Align Parenting Approaches – Help co-parents get on the same page for effective support.
- Plan for the Future – Navigate post-burnout changes and create a new vision for your family.
I offer compassionate, practical support so you and your child can move through burnout with confidence and care. 💛
Every neurodivergent child and family is different and has different support needs.
My support for neurodivergent individuals and families acknowledges their unique needs. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach; instead, I prioritize listening to my clients and providing tailored support that aligns with their preferences and family dynamics.
I offer empathetic, trauma-informed guidance and practical skills to help you feel safe, seen, heard, and understood.
My 1:1 Parent Coaching Partnership provides privacy, support and personalized care for both you as a parent and your children and teen/s
Book your complimentary 30-minute Planning Call with me to get started.
What Parents Are Saying:
“Tanya provided support, insight and guidance for us that has been life-changing for our family.
She is extremely knowledgeable about neuro divergence and the impact on family with ND children.
We found Tanya able to communicate this information and share a range of useful tools in a very clear and caring manner. Tanya supported us to better understand our daughter, adjust our parenting and move our family from crisis point to a much happier and healthier place.
I couldn’t recommend her more highly.” (N.G. – Parent)
What you can expect from our 1-1 Coaching Partnership:
- Confidential, personalized support for you and your family.
- Empathy, understanding and guidance from a parenting coach with decades of professional experience supporting children and families and lived personal experience with her own Neurodivergent Children and Teens.
- Practical, evidence-based tools for trauma-informed parenting, empowering you with grounded confidence in yourself and your parenting.
How it works:
60-minute Zoom Sessions (fortnightly) $140 per session.
or sign up for a 30 day coaching package
- 2 x 60-minute Zoom Sessions
- Plus Voxer Pocket Coaching in between coaching calls
$250 for 30 days of support
Coaching is available via email, text, or voice clips (via the Voxer app) upon request. $140 for 30 days of support