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We all start off our parenting journey with a ‘plan’

A set of expectations, dreams and aspirations for ourselves, our children and what our parenting journey should look like.

Chances are your ‘plan’ looked nothing like this.  

It can feel insurmountable to get your head around what is happening and what needs to be done because you have no idea what the new plan looks like. (I mean is there even a plan?) 

Are you doing the right thing?

Our children are so precious to us, the stakes to getting it right are high!

I get it!

I know what it is like to look at your struggling child in burnout and your family in survival mode and blame yourself.

To work up the courage to ask for help only to feel the cold stare of others’ judgement of your parenting. The invalidation, the hundreds of hoops to jump through and the professional gaslighting…

To be dismissed and to be told that your instincts are wrong or that your children’s struggles are all your fault.

I know what it’s like to know that you need help, but have nowhere to turn to receive it.

It can feel impossibly hard to trust others with these most vulnerable parts of you.

I’ve been where you are and I can help. 

I specialize in working with parents who are looking for support in the following ways:

  • Understanding Burnout: I help you recognize signs of burnout, and understand how it impacts your child, and I work with you to set realistic expectations for their recovery.

  • Creating a Low-Demand Environment: Reducing daily stressors, and addressing sensory overload that is unique to your child is one of the most effective things we can do to support recovery, but also one of the hardest for us as parents to put into practice. I help you unpack your child’s burnout triggers and give you strategies that will allow you to create an environment for healing.

  • Supporting Emotional and Sensory Needs: Sensory and emotional regulation can be very challenging for parents to navigate.  I assist you with support and strategies for managing your child’s emotions and handling sensory sensitivities in a neuro-affirming and trauma-informed way.

  • Managing Transitions: Burnout creates a lot of change for your child, you and your priorities. I guide you as your child moves through transitions, such as moving from one stage of recovery to another, and deciding if returning to school is the right thing for your child while helping them to gradually grow their capacity.  

  • Preventing Future Burnouts: As a neurodivergent person, your child is always vulnerable to burnout throughout their lifespan. I support you with identifying early warning signs and building strategies for long-term well-being and energy management.

  • Empathy and Emotional Support for You: Navigating burnout is one of the toughest parent experiences. The pressure and responsibility that falls on you can seriously put your own mental and physical well-being at risk. I provide a safe space where you can ask questions and process your thoughts, feelings, and grief with someone who understands your journey. I help you to stabilise your nervous system through the use of EFT tapping and havening and ease some of the isolation you feel so you can heal and process the trauma of this experience.

  • Aligning Parenting Approaches: Parenting neurodivergent children and teens through burnout is extraordinarily hard for the relationship you have with your significant other.  It is normal for there to be disagreements and differences in the way co-parents navigate this. I work with couples to assist you and your partner in being on the same page so you can support your child effectively.

  • Planning for the Future: The child and life we go into burnout with is not the child or life we have when we come out of burnout. It can feel really overwhelming when you let go of the old ‘plan’ and are faced with uncertainty for the future. No matter your family situation I hold space for you as you figure out a new ‘plan’ for yourself and your family as you move forward.

Every neurodivergent child and family is different and has different support needs.

My support for neurodivergent individuals and families acknowledges their unique needs. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach; instead, I prioritize listening to my clients and providing tailored support that aligns with their preferences and family dynamics.

I offer empathetic, trauma-informed guidance and practical skills to help you feel safe, seen, heard, and understood.

My 1:1 Parent Coaching Partnership provides privacy, support and personalized care for both you as a parent and your children and teen/s

Book your complimentary 30-minute Planning Call with me to get started.

1-1 parent coaching

What Parents Are Saying:

“Tanya provided support, insight and guidance for us that has been life-changing for our family.  She is extremely knowledgeable about neuro divergence and the impact on family with ND children.  We found Tanya able to communicate this information and share a range of useful tools in a very clear and caring manner.  Tanya supported us to better understand our daughter, adjust our parenting and move our family from crisis point to a much happier and healthier place.  I couldn’t recommend her more highly.” N.G.

What you can expect from our 1-1 Coaching Partnership:

  • Confidential, personalized support for you and your family.
  • Empathy, understanding and guidance from a parenting coach with decades of professional experience supporting children and families and lived personal experience with her own Neurodivergent  Children and Teens.
  • Practical, evidence-based tools for trauma-informed parenting, empowering you with grounded confidence in yourself and your parenting.

How it works:

60-minute Zoom Sessions  (fortnightly) $152 per session.  

or sign up for a 30 day coaching package

  • 2 x 60-minute Zoom Sessions
  • Plus Voxer Pocket Coaching in between coaching calls 

$260 for 30 days of support (limited spaces available)

Book your complimentary 30-minute Planning Call with me to get started.