Neuro-Affirming Support for Parents Navigating The Long Middle of Burnout Recovery
Why lowering demands feels so hard—and how to make it actually work Most parenting advice gets this wrong… When a child is in burnout, the answer isn’t more structure, more consequences, or trying harder. It’s less pressure. More safety. But when you try to lower demands… You might notice: This is where most parents get […] Read more…
Support your child’s self-worth without shame, pressure, or disconnection “Are you mad at me?” “Nobody likes me.” “I ruin everything.” If these words are familiar in your home, you’re not alone. Many neurodivergent children experience Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD)—where even small moments of perceived rejection feel overwhelming, painful, and deeply personal. And when we don’t […] Read more…
A Parent’s Reflection When I was a young child in Sunday school, I remember being in a lesson where the teacher read this passage to us: “God formed man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and he became a living soul.” I’m not sure if you […] Read more…
Beyond Authoritative Parenting: A More Human Way to Raise Neurodivergent Children Rehumanising Parenting is a response to a culture that has slowly reduced parenting to technique, compliance, and optimisation. It is a return to relationship, nervous system awareness, and shared humanity. To understand why this matters, we need to look at the models many of […] Read more…
Rewriting the Rules When Your Neurodivergent Child is Struggling When my children were little, I saw a Facebook meme that nearly broke me. It said: On the surface, it felt so positive. So aspirational.And to a mother who had already done significant healing from her own childhood, it felt like a dream come true. Without […] Read more…
Why Friendships Unravel When Your Neurodivergent Child is in Burnout I was recently reading a Substack post by The Autism Doctor about how many women are not diagnosed as autistic simply because they“have friends.” In the post, she explains that the outward presence of friendships does not necessarily mean those relationships foster genuine connection or […] Read more…
How Self-Help Culture Can Harm Neurodivergent Parents and Cause Burnout There was a moment early in my career that fundamentally changed the direction of my life. At the time, I didn’t have language for it. I only knew that something had cracked open, and something else had quietly fractured. I was a centre manager in […] Read more…
What Nobody Tells You About Advocating for Your Neurodivergent Child During the Holidays There’s a reason saying “We won’t be coming to Christmas lunch this year” makes your entire body tense…Or why asking to leave early feels like you’ve done something wrong…Or why protecting your child’s capacity feels like you’re breaking a sacred family rule. […] Read more…
The wayfinder’s guide for parents going off-grid from behaviourism, control, and inherited narratives I have always enjoyed creating. Art, crafts, poetry and gardening have always been the way that I have enjoyed expressing myself and experiencing joy in the world. The process is always the same, and if you’re an artist or a creative soul, […] Read more…
What the Pikler Approach Taught Me About Connection, Sovereignty, and Burnout Recovery I began my career serving families as a teacher more than 25 years ago.Like many teachers of that time, I was trained in the behaviourist approach, a model inspired more by dog training than by human development. As a young teacher in my […] Read more…