Specialized Support for Parents of Neurodivergent Children and Teens
If you found yourself saying “Yes” to many of these then there is a chance that you could be Neurodivergent.
(These are just some ways that Autism or ADHD can present itself in women and AFAB. Disclaimer: This is not an exhaustive list nor does it constitute a diagnosis and is purely educational. All Neurodivergent people are different with different strengths and difficulties. For a formal diagnosis please consult a professional.)
Discovering that you are Neurodivergent can be life-changing and an exciting journey of self-discovery. However, it can also be so deeply confusing, confronting, emotional and overwhelming.
All late-diagnosed, self-identifying or neuroquestioning Neurodivergent individuals have trauma attached to their identity.
We are the ‘quiet kids’, who learned to follow the rules and do things perfectly so that we could safely fly under the radar. We do this while relinquishing our needs to a culture that does not understand, nor make space for our natural ways of knowing and being.
We bear the brunt of eye rolls and exasperated sighs from teachers as we info-dumped about our interests, fidgeted or needed extra accommodations in class. We know what it is like to not be included in social circles, to be made fun of and/or we may have experienced being bullied by our peers.
We are the woman who was labelled as ‘different’,’ too sensitive’ and ‘difficult’ at work.
We are the mum who found it hard to make friends with other mums, and who struggled to gather a community around her so we just did it alone.
There are so many places inside of our sense of self where we learned that we were ‘too much’, or ‘not enough’. Where we learned to hide, stay silent, please or pretend till we don’t even know who we are underneath it all…
And yet we are who we are. Beneath the narrative, the labels and the construct of who others told us who we are.
We are.
We are in our own space and time. We are our own person. We are Neurodivergent, different and proud, not disordered or broken.
You are invited to this ‘Reclaiming your Neurodivirgent Identity’ 90-minute masterclass based on trauma-informed, neuro-affirming research and the lived experience of Tanya Valentin, as a late-identified AuDHD woman. Together we will explore ways that you can understand and explore your Neurodivergence and reclaim your Authentic Neurodivergent Identity with compassion and grace.
Cost $55 NZD or Pay What You Can as part of our Ethical Pricing Offer
We have a right to exist, to express ourselves, to take up space, to decide and to just be.
Cost $55 NZD or Pay What You Can as part of our Ethical Pricing Offer